money archetypes and guilt and shame

By May 29, 2012 Blog

Do you feel any guilt or shame around money?  How about the subject of money, was it taboo in your family when you grew up?  Do they keep it secret?  Or are there arguments around it?  Do you overhear things where there wasn’t enough?  Or were you told things like you can’t have that now, or if you have that, you’re starving children in India?

Guilt and shame around money is a deep issue for most people.  The reason I love to help people around the topic of money is because it has so much emotion and powerful, powerful feelings attached to it.  It’s the number one cause of divorce.  We kill for it.  We disown people for it.  There are all kinds of conflict and confusion inside over the topic of money, and it’s one of the top taboo subjects to talk about, money, sex, religion, politics.

What I find is that shame around money is damaging to your ability to make and keep money and feel good and fulfilled in life. Guilt around being worthy of money or having money or having more money than other people, guilt around wanting more money, feeling that that means you’re greedy.  If you have any beliefs around lack, if you were taught in role models when you were growing up that there isn’t enough and you shouldn’t want more than other people, or perhaps that money wasn’t spiritual and you’re not a good person if you want money, or money can make you corrupt.

I’d like to invite you to understand that there are archetype patterns operating underneath your beliefs and your programs about what is true for you on who you are, what money is and whether it’s good or bad and what you have to do to get it.  All of those ideas inside of you are creating your experience of reality right now.  You’re creating what’s in your bank account.  You’re creating the flow of the money and the clients into your life, so I find it’s best to go to the cause.  I like to go to the cause of what is happening in your life and at that level of cause we can create a shift that will then ripple out into your life and change the results or the effect in your life.

What are the results and effects?  Well, the cause is how you’re being, what you’re thinking, feeling and acting, and that’s determined by what you believe.  So even if you know as an adult in your mind that there is nothing wrong with money, that money is a powerful tool, that it would really help you have the freedom to live the life you want, to invest in the things you want, to give what you want, and to really fulfill your potential, then you really would like to have more ease, peace, confidence and flow and abundance with money, but your efforts seemed to be slow or go in spurts or be inconsistent and you feel like there is almost something invisible inside of you holding you back.  Well, this is the patterns within you that are like a computer program because those beliefs were put there and you now are living from them.  They are determining what you’re able to be aware of that you don’t see the solutions to a problem and it doesn’t mean you’ll make more money.

What’s the solution?  To recalibrate your money map, your high income profile and your money archetypes.  This is something I’m going to doing at my live event on June 2nd and 3rd.  You can still grab a seat with us.  Go to https://highincomehypnosislive.com  .  In this two-day live event, I’m going to be guiding everyone through deep, high-income hypnosis journeys to look into what are the money archetypes that you are operating from that are keeping you from connecting to your abundance, that are keeping you from having the success you want in your business, that are keeping you from seeing and feeling worthy of the money that you desire and the client you desire.  We are going to do laser coaching right there on the spot.  This is a small group intensive, so everyone will get attention on exactly what comes up for you, and then we are going to create a plan for you to move forward.

We are going to look into your money archetypes.  Your money manifesting archetypes are things like if you’re feeling a lot of shame and guilt with money and you don’t feel worthy of it, like you literally can’t feel your value and so you have a difficult time talking to clients and asking them to buy your products or to hire you, and you maybe are trading your services, discounting them, not charging your full worth, or perhaps you’re giving your services away for free.

 SIGNS YOU may have a “Slave”Archetype with money:
If you’re working for someone else and you are taking on more work without pay… if you feel obligated to people that you have to keep giving, even at your own cost… if you feel unworthy or afraid of asking to be paid, or for a raise… if you are not charging at all, or enough to feel respected… then you have the archetype that is around the slave or a servant.  The slave archetype doesn’t get paid and so if you have that operating, you feel absolutely worthless, not seen, not respected, not valued, but expected to work, expected to show up.  I have seen people who worked for other people without getting paid for long periods of time.  I’ve seen people take cuts in their pay and increase in their load and continue to stay.  I’ve seen people who work in their business as a coach or a healer for free, not charging anything and being afraid to then start to stand up and charge anything. I see people work in their business for years with little or no real income…. why?

If you’re doing any of these things, you’re trading away your time or you find it difficult to really state your value and charge what you’re worth, raise your rates, you probably have a slave or a combination slave/servant archetype.  This is obviously not the ideal money archetype to be living from.  So you want to understand that that’s coming from somewhere.  That’s coming from a place within you and until you understand it and shift that pattern and the beliefs that are supporting it at a subconscious level through new experience or hypnosis, you won’t be able to break that pattern.

So take a look at what you feel around money. 

  • If you feel ashamed to have it, to keep it, that you don’t deserve it, that you’re not worthy of it, or maybe you’re only worthy of it if you really slaved really hard.
  • If you feel obligated to people who aren’t appreciating or respecting you or paying what you are worth
  • If you have clients that are paying you but paying you late…

… you want to take a look at what is the shame and guilt you feel around money into your life.

If you’d like to work with me to find the deep, inner cause of these things, which I found in my work is the way to shift this and it’s fast and it’s lasting, then set a time to talk to me here ==>CLICK HERE<==.  You might be ready for a High Income Hypnosis coaching package, or maybe you should check out coming to my live event coming this weekend, June 2nd and 3rd, in Austin.  It could be the breakthrough you’re looking for.  I’m looking forward to talking to you and clearing your guilt and shame around money so you can truly prosper doing what you love.